Tuesday, March 18, 2008

The Rich Young Ruler: Luke 18:18-23


The truck swerves into the BP petrol station. Children dressed in torn, dirty rags suddenly surround the truck, two or three at each window. Their little black faces smeared with dirt and snot. They hold out small weather beaten hands, begging for anything we might have to spare. We have learned to keep the truck stocked for moments such as these. I reach into the glove compartment and pull out small bags of Malawian peanuts, one bag for each child, as well as handing them a few coins, spare change we keep on the dash board. Some say that giving to the beggars only encourages them.

Liz takes the girls to the market. As soon as they step out of the car, 12 teenage boys crowd around “Madame”, bombarding her, “Please Madame, hire me.” “Madame, I was here first.” “Madame, I need money, please, take me.” Each boy desperately begging to be hired. They want to carry her baskets of produce through the market as she shops. She has to choose one. She begins to sweat.
The market is a huge open-air arena under a metal roof. People come to sell their fruits and vegetables. Pineapples lay stacked on tables next to lemons and avocados. A woman sits on the dirt floor with her blanket spread open, onions and green beans neatly stacked in piles upon the blanket. Liz, Terra and Jordan are the only white people in the market. The merchants know she has more money than any of them could ever dream of. They jack up the prices for the white woman. It is constant negotiating until an agreed price can be found. She learns to be bold. Just a face will bring down the price.
She returns to the parking lot and finds the truck being washed by an aggressive entrepreneur. She smiles and sighs as she realizes another fee before going home.

Stephen sits in his small office at Zomba Theological College, trying to prepare for tomorrow's classes. He is overwhelmed with work! Three different classes, three days a week, each class demanding an hour’s worth of material. He has just finished teaching and settling into study and prep time when there is a knock on his door. A man humbly shuffles in, giving quick little bows as he introduces himself as a friend of a friend and his brother just died and he has no money for the children for whom he must now assume responsibility and does the good white brother have some money he can donate to him. No sooner does he leave and there is a knock on the office door again. A man carrying two burlap sacks confidently strides into the office. Out of the sacks emerge wooden, hand carved curios. He begins to display wooden sculptures on the floor for the good Reverend to buy. No sooner does he leave and a third knock interrupts the exhausted abusa (pastor). The seminary secretary says there is a man to see Stephen who was a friend of one of our friends. Stephen looks down the hall and sees it is another...con artist? beggar? person who wants to feed their family?

Liz heads back home after walking Jordan to her private school. A man signals to her. He moves to stand between her and the gate to the house. He makes strange guttural sounds as he hands her a piece of paper with a type written message. It explains that he is partially deaf and trying to purchase hearing aids. Below is a signature sheet listing names who have already contributed. He holds out a hand asking.

Patrick approaches the American family for whom he works. Patrick lives with his wife and two children, his wife’s brother, who is currently unemployed, and another friend who is currently out of work as well. Patrick explains that he is also supporting his sister’s four children. Her husband is dead and so Patrick must help her out. His sister has just telephoned him to say that her daughters were sent home from school today because she has not paid the school fees. Could he help her? Could we help him? The cost for the four girls is k12,000. This equals about $85.00. It must be paid every trimester.

Every day we face many decisions. It is a way of life here. Who is the con artist, where is there legitimate need? How do we best use our resources? What’s the rich ruler to do?

9 comments:

Anonymous said...

That seems, very difficult. Yes, that's the word. Good luck and god bless you my dear souls.

John and Joan said...

We thought of you in Penicuik North last Sunday when John spoke with the children about remembering friends far away - and how excited we will be when we see them again...

Anonymous said...

Hello from Lambertville, NJ. This is Brian and Nancy Malone. We just returned from Blantyre 2 weeks ago. We were visiting our son, Kevin(Lawrence HS and Indiana University grad) who is serving in the Peace Corps and living in Kakoma, just south of Blantyre. We have read your blog with much interest and found your experiences very similar to our own. The country has amazingly beautiful sights and the people are so warm and giving of what little they have. Our greeting in Kevin's village was similar to your arrival- music, dancing and speeches while seated on rickety chairs. I do hope you will get a chance to meet Kevin. He can give you a wonderful tour of Majete Game Preserve. There is a wonderful lodge on Zomba Mountain that has incredible views of the whole valley and a wonderful, friendly dog named Oblix. Mua Mission in Dedza has a fantastic museum explaining so many customs and mores of the African people. I could go on and on because we loved the visit so much. We will be praying for Kevin and your family in the work that you are all doing. You may want to check Kevin's blog. He only updates it about every 2 months when he gets to the Peace Corps house in Blantyre - near the Seventh Day Adventist Church on the southeast side of downtown. His blog address is https://peacecorpskevin.blogspot.com
Best wishes and God speed.

Charlie said...

Sounds like you're being challenged with some pretty hard decisions. If you figure it out let me know!

I really struggled with how to interact with the many beggars I saw on a weekly basis in Kansas City. I gave occasionally, but not often. I never felt good about walking away. The words of Jesus would always ring in my ear "give to those who ask of you" and I would spend the next 10 minutes justifying why Jesus didn't really mean that I had to give to everyone who asked of me.

I would think about my friends who said that it just makes the problem worse and that the real answer was to volunteer at the Rescue Mission or support a charity... but that just didn't seem to make my questions go away. And giving to a charity felt like such a detached way of "loving the poor."

I love that you connected your story to Jesus' encounter with the Rich Young Ruler. That challenges me to think, if Jesus asked that guy to give it ALL up, then how can I not give something to the beggars I meet.

Anonymous said...

Being a follower of Christ is not easy but Dad says he feels you are at the right place at the right time and you will find some purpose for your life there. Again the blog is great - whoever is doing the writing. I almost was moved to tears but realized that is no help. We are momentarily waiting for Jem and friends for Easter vacation. It is cold but beautiful sun. It will be difficult to hide the eggs because everything is still bare - Easter is very early. Love to all, Mother

Richard LeComte said...

We've been reading about your wonderful adventure in Malawi, and we're all praying for you. Terra's 13th birthday must be right around the corner, because Rachel (whom Steve baptized in Palatka) is turning 13 on Easter Sunday. Happy Easter!

Richard LeComte, Jennifer Greer and Rachel, Hannah and Olivia LeComte

Kara said...

What heart-wrenching decisions. I would guess it would either wear you out or make you numb ... or both.

I pray that the Spirit will give you wisdom and discernment, but I'm guessing that nothing will make those decisions easier.

My prayers are with you. While you are learning so much, you must be WORN OUT. Again, we'll keep praying.

(It was wonderful to hear your greetings read in church this Easter morning. Charlie's mom and my parents were in town and very much enjoyed the service.)

Susie said...

I can't imagine the decisions you have to make from day to day. It must be so hard, but so comforting to know that God is with you in all the decisions you make.

I hope you are all well, I miss Allentown so much. I never knew how much it had begun to feel like home.

Take care and lots of love

Susie

Anonymous said...

It seems so hard to imagine life in Africa when we live here in the U.S. You face so many hardships and we relax at ease. You have fees to face and we can just stay home no money leaving our pockets. I really hope that when you come back, we can all laugh and have good times. Your loving cousin,
Tumbleweed
(aka Julia)